Co-Parenting and At-Home Dads Offer Value to the Family
Dads have assumed much more hands-on involvement in parenting over the past few generations; they appear to be more involved in their kids' education, available during the weekdays, in classes with their tots, splitting the "shifts" with their spouses, and even staying home with their kids full-time. The benefits of technology, work-flexibility, and work-at-home options present viable and attractive possibilities that support parenthood. They also enable moms to maintain and grow their skill sets and earning power. While I worked part-time (returning home around noon) the first four years of having children, my husband stayed with the kids at home, then worked his regular job the remainder of the day. As a new (nursing) mom, I was not excited to return to work so soon, but I was put at ease knowing that my husband was taking care of everything at home. My husband and I grew to appreciate each other more, which led to a deep family bond. I am convinced that greater "balance" in the family can be achieved (in some situations) when fathers take on more responsibility in the role of caretaking while, in turn, mothers obtain value/income from the outside world. Many of today's families, for various reasons, are open to breaking the mold of typical gender roles. I hope that our society continues to explore and support the benefits of co-parenting, stay-at-home/work-at-home models, and flexible work schedules.
I joke with my my husband telling him that he was a better "stay-at-home mom" (is that sexist? lol) than I, and the reality is that he would "absolutely LOVE", again, to trade roles. How do you weigh in? Do you relate in any way? Please share! CommentsCreate a New User today, its FREE!
sdbargainmama (February 16, 2010 9:11 PM)
Thanks, lovinlifeonless. Team effort sometimes pays the bills. Yay, weekends! :)
lovinlifeonless (February 16, 2010 3:59 PM)
My husband was a SAHD for a few months and he is a very, very active father in my son's school. I think it is wonderful. I sometimes feel a little jealous. I work during the week and he works weekends. That is how we divy up the responsabilites. I make the weekends count :-) |
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